The Ten Paradoxical Commandments for Leadership

Some years ago I came across The Ten Paradoxical Commandments for Leadership. Over the years I have tucked these commandments away for safe-keeping, but from time-to-time, bring them out and reread them, as they always are a source of strength and focus. Anyone who has ever devoted himself/herself to a good cause, or sought to make things better for the people in his/her sphere of influence, understands the need to rise above the criticism of small minds and destructive people.

The progress of humankind was never accomplished by naysayers. Most every great effort of whatever nature was thwarted by those who said it could not be done and threw their stones. The good in the world has often been accomplished in the face of horrific opposition, and indeed, history has recorded its martyrs who have paid the ultimate sacrifice. Sometimes even a kind word or compassionate gesture is met with resistance and suspicion.The challenge is always to rise above negativity, disapproval, and cynicism. It is not easy to go against the current, or to be shot down when one's motive is worthy or noble. The temptation is to throw in the towel and adopt an attitude of "What's the use?" But true leaders never allow negativity to get the upper hand. The good never wins by surrendering heart, soul or purpose. That is why one must always push on for truth, push on for a good cause and push on for what is right. In the eyes of the world, such a one may or may not wear a laurel, but in one's heart of hearts, s/he knows what integrity and truth are all about. May you anchor your life in these paradoxical commandments of leadership:

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.

People favor the underdogs but follow only the top dogs. Fight for the underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building maybe destroyed overnight. Build anyway.

People really need help, but may attack you if you do help them. Help them anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.